If your relationship has ended, or you think it might be ending, you're probably facing more decisions than feel manageable right now — about the children, the house, money and what your life will look like next. It's one of the hardest experiences most people ever have, and it's completely understandable to feel unsure where to begin. I'd like to help you take it one step at a time. For people in Adelaide the law is the same as everywhere outside WA: the federal Family Law Act 1975 applies, de facto couples are covered by the same Act as married couples, and applications go to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia, which has a registry in the city. I'm Elisa Rothschild, principal at Fogarty Oliver Rothschild. I'm admitted in Victoria and to the High Court of Australia, which allows me to act in family law matters across Australia, and I work with Adelaide clients by video, phone and email. I handle every matter personally, from the first conversation to the final orders.
Where to start after separating
There's no single right first step, but a few things help almost everyone: making sure you and the children are safe and settled, gathering a simple picture of what you own and owe, and getting clear advice before you agree to anything significant. You don't need to have all the answers before we speak — working those out is my job.
Many Adelaide couples manage to reach agreement themselves or with a mediator. Where that's possible, my role is to make sure the agreement is fair, properly documented and legally binding, so it doesn't unravel later.
Consent orders in Adelaide
Consent orders turn an agreement about property, the children, or both into court orders that are final and enforceable. The application and proposed orders are filed online with the Federal Circuit and Family Court, with a $205 filing fee, and a registrar decides them on the papers, so neither of you has to go to court. Property orders must be just and equitable, and parenting orders must be in the children's best interests.
I draft the orders so they say exactly what you agreed, check the financial disclosure behind them, and explain every clause before you sign. My fee for Adelaide clients is $990 for property only or parenting only, or $1,490 for both, plus the court fee.
Binding Financial Agreements
A Binding Financial Agreement (BFA) is a private contract under the Family Law Act setting out how property and superannuation will be divided, without a court approving it. Couples make them before marrying or moving in together, during the relationship, or after separating. Each of you must receive independent legal advice before signing, so I act for one of you and your partner needs their own lawyer.
For Adelaide clients, a straightforward BFA is from $1,490, and more complex agreements — for example where there's a family business, a trust or significant investments — range from $2,990 to $4,950.
Divorce and property settlement
You can apply for divorce once you've been separated for 12 months, alone or jointly, online through the Commonwealth Courts Portal. The court filing fee is $1,125, or $375 with a concession. My fee is $750 for a joint application and $990 for a sole one. Divorce ends the marriage but doesn't divide property, so the property settlement is a separate step.
Time limits matter: married couples generally have 12 months from the divorce taking effect to apply for property orders, and de facto couples generally two years from separating.
Courts, safety and stamp duty in SA
Adelaide matters are handled by the Federal Circuit and Family Court through its Adelaide registry. If a hearing is ever needed, I appear by video link where the court permits, or in person where the matter requires it, and brief local counsel myself if needed so you're not managing two sets of lawyers.
If you're not safe, call 000 in an emergency, or 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for confidential support. Intervention orders in SA are made by the Magistrates Court of South Australia, and I'll help you work out what needs to happen locally. If the home is transferred between you under family law orders or a BFA, South Australia generally provides relief from stamp duty, subject to conditions, and we'll check how that applies.
Fees that are lower than my Victorian fees
I've set my fees for South Australian clients below my Victorian fees, because I'd rather more people get proper advice early than try to manage alone. You'll always know where you stand: after a free 30-minute consultation I confirm your fee in writing, and no work begins until you've agreed to it.
Frequently asked questions — family law in Adelaide
Can a Melbourne lawyer act for me in Adelaide?+
Yes. Family law is federal, so the Family Law Act 1975 applies in South Australia exactly as in Victoria, and applications are filed online with the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. I'm admitted in Victoria and to the High Court of Australia, which allows me to act in family law matters Australia-wide.
How much do consent orders cost in Adelaide?+
The court filing fee is $205. My fee is $990 for property only or parenting only, or $1,490 for both — lower than my Victorian fees. Your fee is confirmed in writing after the free 30-minute consultation and before any work starts.
How much does a divorce cost?+
The court filing fee is $1,125, or $375 if you're eligible for a concession. My fee is $750 for a joint application or $990 for a sole one.
Do I have to go to court?+
For an agreed outcome, no. Consent orders and divorce applications are filed online and decided without a hearing in most cases. If a contested hearing is needed, I appear at the Adelaide registry by video link where the court permits, or in person where required.
Is a BFA valid for de facto couples in SA?+
Yes. A Binding Financial Agreement under the federal Family Law Act is available to married and de facto couples in South Australia, provided the strict requirements are met, including independent legal advice for each of you before signing.
What happens in the free consultation?+
You tell me what's happening and what worries you most, and I give you an honest, plain-English picture of your options and the likely next steps. It's by video or phone, confidential, and there's no obligation.
Family law help for Adelaide, whatever you're facing
Whatever stage you're at, you don't have to work it out on your own. Here's how I help Adelaide families — calmly, honestly, and always on your side.
Divorce lawyer in Adelaide
From the divorce application itself through to dividing property and sorting arrangements for the children — handled one calm step at a time, in plain English. See how I help with divorce →
Child custody & parenting lawyer in Adelaide
Where the children live, time with each parent, and how the big decisions get made — always guided by what's genuinely best for them, never point-scoring. Parenting & children's issues →
Property settlement lawyer in Adelaide
Dividing the home, superannuation, savings and debts fairly, with as little conflict as possible. How property settlement works → · What a family lawyer costs →
Reviewed by Elisa Rothschild BA/LLB — Principal Lawyer, Fogarty Oliver Rothschild. Last reviewed 2026-05-28.